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Do You Know the Secret Formula for Dramatically Improving Your Relationship Success?
Become a "Partner in Love and Crime" by breaking the rules
- Overcome commitment phobia
- Get more dates
- Save your marriage
Many people have found that love relationships are hard to come by and don't last.
They feel lonely, rejected, and
afraid to try again. Sometimes they blame themselves,
and sometimes they blame the other person.
Why is this?
Why do people fear starting relationships?
Why do they get into relationships and then want to get out?
Why do they stay in relationships when they are not happy?
I want to give you the answers to these and other questions.
The new concept I want to reveal is called “Partners in Love and Crime.” You don’t have to be beautiful or rich or young or funny to be successful in love.
But you must know the emotional needs of the opposite sex and you must have the ability to meet those needs.
And how do you do this?
By BREAKING THE RULES!
Let me share a story.
I was playing a game of “Uno Attack” with a four-year old (Alex), a six-year old (Ian), and an eight-year old (Jacob).
Uno Attack is a card game where the objective is to be the first to lose all your cards. If you are unable to play a matching number or color, you must push a button on the game mechanism and it may (or may not) launch a bunch of cards towards you, which you must add to your hand (a bad thing…)
Alex just wanted to push the button, whether or not it was necessary. Ian wanted to be on my team, even though Uno is not a team game. Jacob kept peeking in the hands of other players.
I instructed them all in the rules of the game (only push the button when you can’t discard, there are no teams, don’t peek in other’s hands), and spent much of the game enforcing the rules.
Everyone had a great time (it’s a really fun game), but I learned some important lessons.
Alex didn’t care about the rules. He just wanted to have fun.
Ian didn’t care about the rules. He just wanted to feel that someone was on his side (his “team”), so he wouldn’t be alone.
Jacob didn’t care about the rules either. He just wanted to win.
I had fun, but I would have had more fun if I had ignored the rules. And afterwards, I felt very bad that I had not agreed to be on Ian’s “team” when he was so clearly reaching out for connection.
So I learned… “If you want to have fun, break the rules!” Life is too short – if you have to choose between rules and fun, choose fun. Join up in teams to break the rules so everyone feels closer and no one feels alone.
Love is a lot like Uno. The culture lays down the rules for us to follow, and if we follow them there’s a good chance we will lose our cards (experience rejection, breakups, affairs, and divorce). If we break the rules, with someone else, we can feel that at least one other person is on our side, and it doesn’t matter if we win or lose if we have fun.
This is the essence of “Partners in Love and Crime.” Experience extraordinary love by breaking the rules. Increase the feeling of excitement and closeness that comes when you work together with your partner to make your own rules.
Love is a lot like Uno. The culture lays down the rules for us to follow, and if we follow them there’s a good chance we will lose our cards (experience rejection, breakups, affairs, and divorce). If we break the rules, with someone else, we can feel that at least one other person is on our side, and it doesn’t matter if we win or lose if we have fun.
This is the essence of “Partners in Love and Crime.” Experience extraordinary love by breaking the rules. Increase the feeling of excitement and closeness that comes when you work together with your partner to make your own rules.
When you see love this way you feel renewed, excited, and greet each day with fresh plans and ideas. You can “design your own love!”
And by being
this kind of person, one who is on the side of your
partner, you will feel more confident, more attractive,
and more sexy. You don’t have to be perfect,
and neither does your partner. You can be your crazy
self.
Yes, this is a NEW CONCEPT. And you can not only learn
to be a Partner in Love and Crime, you can get in on
the ground floor of spreading this revolutionary idea
to the rest of the world.
Here are the details:
Partners in Love and Crime Starter Kit
The Partners in Love and Crime Starter Kit, contains ALL of the following items:
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Partners in Love and Crime
E-Book This is the exciting and fun new book that tells the story of Partners in Love and Crime and how using its strategy can bring you extraordinary love.
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Key chapters of this book include:
- The Top 10 Reasons People Can’t Find Their Soulmate
- The Top 10 Reasons People Get Married
- The Top 10 Reasons Why Marriage and Relationships Don’t Work
- The Top 10 Solutions to the Relationship dilemma
Learn how to balance your needs for connection with your partner’s needs for freedom. Find out about the “Secret Side” of love. Create a “break the rules” relationship that is exciting and brings you closer.
This e-book shows the hidden problems behind relationship break-ups, and show how to head them off before they become overwhelming!
Partners in Love and Crime 5-Session Workshop Recording
Learn the Partners in Love and Crime process step-by-step.
Listen to this fun and informative live telephone workshop.
Download this recording and I will show you how expectations can ruin relationships, and you will learn about your own subconscious expectations. I will teach you how to break out of the prison in your mind to become an ally of your partner, an advocate for his or her emotional needs.
I am going to show you how to let go of expectations without foregoing your own desires or sacrificing your own values. In fact, you will be able to get even more of what you want…
What happens in love relationships is that we are so concerned about getting our own needs met, that we fail to know and meet the needs of our partner. This is even more difficult because often our partner does not reveal his or her own “secret” needs…
So we will figure out what questions to ask and how to ascertain and meet those secret needs.
In five 90 minute session, you will find out
- What people fear about relationships
- What are their unmet desires
- What social rules restrict their capacity to give and receive love
- Why monogamy doesn’t work
- How monogamy can work
- How to become a Partner in Love and Crime
- How to experience extraordinary love by breaking the rules
Partners in Love and Crime Workshop Manual
In order to get the most from the Partners in Love and Crime Workshop, I have designed a workbook to go with it. Here you will have a brief written record of the proceedings for easy reference, and you can record the specific items that are most significant to you.
The workshop takes place over a five week time period, so you will have time to internalize and practice the techniques I will teach.
Bonus Items
Get ALL of the FREE bonus items listed below when you sign up for the Partners in Love and Crime Starter Kit!
Audio Program – “Exciting and Successful Relationships”Learn from the masters! Randy Hurlburt and Tianna Conte-Dubs host a telephone workshop that teaches you the secrets of good love and good sex:
- How desire can make or break a relationship
- What abilities are necessary for a successful relationship
- Why it's hard to find a relationship that is both exciting and successful
- Why going slow in the beginning can lead to going farther in the end
Questionnaire – Romantic Attraction Questionnaire
Here is the groundbreaking “Love Test” designed by Harold Bessell, Ph.D. When you take this test you will find out…
- Do you feel enough attraction for a permanent relationship
- Does your partner feel enough attraction?
- What is the difference between true chemistry and infatuation?
- What is the difference between true chemistry and sex?
This is an essential tool to determine what the future may hold for any given relationship.
Questionnaire – Emotional Maturity Questionnaire
In addition to romantic chemistry, you need to know the degree of emotional maturity in a potential partner. This companion love test does just that.
This important test will show you
- Is your partner aware of his or her feelings?
- Does your partner have good relationship skills?
- How competent is your partner to follow through on projects and commitments?
- How much integrity does your partner show in interpersonal relations?
With this information you can set the stage for a terrific Partners in Love and Crime relationship.
Special Report – “How Soon to be Exclusive?”
Becoming “exclusive” is an important and scary time in the life of a relationship. How long should you wait? What if one wants exclusivity and the other doesn’t?
Why do some people want exclusivity so soon? Why do others seem to never want it (commitment phobia)?
In this electrifying special report you will find guidance on
- How to tell if it’s love or insecurity
- The difference between infatuation and sincere interest
- Whether “commitment” and “exclusivity” are the same thing
- The benefits of various dating strategies
VIP Version
With the VIP version of the Partners in Love and Crime Starter Kit, you will receive ALL of the items listed above iPLUS the following:
VIP Special Bonus #1
One-on-One Special Coaching Session
It’s unbelievable, but as part of our website launch promotion all VIP participants will ALSO receive a special coaching session with Randy (a $125 value).
Learn how to easily get dates, overcome commitment phobia, and salvage relationships that are on the brink of disaster by applying the Partners in Love and Crime Strategies.
This is a personal one-on-one telephone coaching session that will focus on your particular relationship situation and goals and help you see the best way forward.
Create a plan to bring the Partners in Love and Crime relationship that you want into your life. Leave the call feeling energized and renewed, confident that you are building the skills to pursue your dream.
VIP Special Bonus #2
Audio Program – “Sexual Fantasies in Love Relationships”
Do you have fantasies? Do you share them with your partner? Do you think it’s a good idea to do so? Sex is almost always a part of love relationships, but sexual fantasies are often taboo.
Join internationally acclaimed relationship coach and author Randy Hurlburt to learn the origin of fantasies and how they affect relationships. This recording of a unique live seminar includes frank and open discussion of sexual fantasies, as well as when to discuss (or not discuss) fantasies, and how fantasies affect relationships.
In this informative and titillating program, recorded with a live audience, you will learn from Randy
- Why sharing sexual fantasies is important
- What are some common sexual fantasies
- What is the source of sexual fantasies
- When is it safe to share sexual fantasies
Learning to explore the “secret side” with your partner is central to the Partners in Love and Crime strategy!
All of the above for only $29? ($37 for the VIP version)? Impossible! But it’s true, for a limited time only during this website launch promotion. The next time this workshop is offered live it will be $495.00!!!
The workshop and bonuses have a total value of $1002!
This is an unbelievably great deal! Get in on the ground floor. Learn new skills. Get two books and three audio programs. Have your stories told. Get a fun workshop from the comfort of your home and get private individual coaching.
The low low low price is as follows:
Partners in Love and Crime Starter Kit (Standard Version) including bonuses 1 through 4: $29.00
Partners in Love and Crime Starter Kit (VIP Version) including all bonuses and VIP Special Bonuses: $37.00
Here’s a summary of what you’ll get:

| Item | Value | Standard | VIP |
| Partners in Love and Crime E-Book | $39 | X | X |
| Partners in Love and Crime Workshop Recording | $149 | X | X |
| Partners in Love and Crime Workshop Manual | $35 | X | X |
| "Exciting and Successful Relationships" Audio | $29 | X | X |
| Romantic Attraction Questionnaire | $19 | X | X |
| Emotional Maturity Questionnaire | $ 19 | X | X |
| Special Report-"How soon to be Exclusive" | $15 | X | X |
| "Sexual Fantasies in love Relationships"Audio | $55 | X | |
| One-on-One Special Coaching Session | $125 | X | |
| Total Value | $274 | $429 | |
| Actual Price | $29 | $37 |
Why am I offering all this value for such a low price?
Because this is the launch of the Partners in Love and Crime website as well as the creation of the Partners in Love and Crime E-book.
So don’t wait! And, with the VIP version you can get the free one-on-one coaching and other special bonus. The best time to begin life as a “partner in love and crime” is now!
To purchase the Starter Kit, please send an email to Randy@PartnersInLoveAndCrime.com and I will get it to you right away.
Wishing you extraordinary love,
Randy Hurlburt
Certified Relationship Coach, Speaker, and Author
www.PartnersInLoveAndCrime.com
Experience extraordinary love by breaking the rules
He is the author of two books, Partners in Love and Crime(to be published January 1) and Love Is Not A Game (published in 2001).
Learn from Randy how social programming may be preventing you from finding good love (and good sex), without your knowledge!
Randy is a member of the Relationship Coaching Institute, and is a Certified Relationship Coach, a Certified Interaction Management Instructor, and a member of the Independent Writers of Southern California.
Thank You x 100!
Randy –
Thank you (x100) for the many ways you are there for me. I send my gratitude and heartfelt appreciation! Much light and joy,
Nancy from Canada
Getting rid of expectations
Randy - Your newsletter helped me so much because I tend to place high expectations on everything in my life then when everything goes wrong or not quite what I expected I can get depressed or enraged..........not a good thing, I know. I’m trying very hard to understand that expectations are just that: “expectations” and are not necessarily things that will come to pass just because that's what we want at that particular time......Thank you so much!
M. T., a newsletter subscriber


