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How to Get Over a Lost Relationship

Learn from the masters! Randy Hurlburt and Tianna Conte-Dubs host a telephone workshop that teaches you how to recover from that "shattered" feeling after losing a love relationship. In this revealing 50 min. audio teleseminar you'll learn
  • What to do when you feel you can't go on
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  • How to find light at the end of the tunnel
  • A step by step process to re-discover yourself
  • What is the “Black Madonna”?
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Special Report:

Why Most Relationships Fall Apart – and What to Do About It

Commitment phobia is everywhere! It keeps people from getting into
a relationship. It causes people to break up. It causes affairs. It is the Destroyer of all relationships!

No one is immune from commitment phobia, and it causes relationship to fall apart wherever it goes...

Although “commitment phobia” is a common term for people who are afraid of relationships, what is not commonly recognized is that everyone is afraid of relationships to some degree, so everyone has commitment phobia! Commitment phobia can be overcome, and the Partners in Love and Crime strategy is aimed at doing just that.

In this special report, “The Many Faces of Commitment Phobia,” you will find out

  • Why commitment phobia is the cause of all relationship problems
  • What causes commitment phobia
  • Why commitment phobia is so commonly misunderstood
  • How to solve commitment phobia
  • Why you need to break the rules
  • How to understand the “dark side” of the opposite sex


Relationship and Commitment Quiz

How much do you know about love and commitment? How much does your partner (if you have one) know? Relationship issues often arise because of a lack of knowledge.. If this is the case, it's good news because you can do something about it!

In this quiz you will find out

  • Do you know what you want?
  • Do you know what's behind commitment issues?
  • How good are your dating skills?
  • How good are your relationship skills?
  • And much more...
Special Report:

To Stay or Leave, That is the Question

How do you know if you’re on the edge of a breakup? And what should you do?

Here are some indicators to help you know if you are on the edge of a breakup:

  • You are asking yourself if this relationship is right for you
  • Your partner has said maybe it’s not right for him or her
  • Sex has become infrequent or unfulfilling
  • There has been infidelity in the relationship
  • You have already broken up or are thinking of going back


In this important article you will learn the 7 steps for deciding whether to stay or go. Don’t proceed one way or another before reading this article!

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The Benefits

Here are the benefits of the “Partners in Love and Crime” approach to relationships:

1. You can more easily find dates because you do not give off vibrations of “I want to put you in prison.” People will be more attracted to you because they do not perceive you as being needy.

2. You can more easily get from “dates” to “relationships" because you are comfortable navigating the “in-between world” that starts with acquaintance and builds slowly to friend to partial relationship to partner.

3. You can more effectively work through the problems of commitment phobia that arise either at the beginning of a relationship or after a few years because you want to help your partner meet his or her needs. There will be no need to break up, because there will be no need to “break out of prison.”

4. You will be more likely to be able to resolve issues when you are on the edge of a breakup, because you are committed to getting the other person’s needs met, something everyone wants.

5. There is less likelihood that your partner will have an affair, because he or she is getting all their needs met.

6. You will more easily be able to keep relationships long term (or forever) because you have the skills to negotiate wants and needs.

7. Last but not least there will be better sex. By being open to your partner’s dark side, exploring fantasies, and offering more acceptance, your sex life will be invigorated, more exciting, and play its important role in holding your relationship together.


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Wishing you extraordinary love,

Randy Hurlburt
Certified Relatiionship Coach, Speaker, and Author
Experience extraordinary love by breaking the rules

Relationship Counseling
Randy Hurlburt is an internationally acclaimed relationship coach, speaker, and author. He specializes in helping singles and couples overcome commitment phobia and experience extraordinary love by breaking the rules.

He is the author of two books, Partners in Love and Crime and Love Is Not A Game.

Learn from Randy how social programming may be preventing you from finding good love (and good sex), without your knowledge!

Randy is a member of the Relationship Coaching Institute, and is a Certified Relationship Coach, a Certified Interaction Management Instructor, and a member of the Independent Writers of Southern California.

Advice for the whole family

Randy, I LOVE LOVE LOVE what you wrote about “What to do when he says ‘I love you but I’m not in love with you’”!!!!!


I need to pass this on to my 23 year old daughter and 30 year old co worker!

Thanks again, Randy.

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